This is the current Preface to a book I hope to publish soon. It is intended to help those struggling with chaos in their relationship that may be caused by undiagnosed and misunderstood Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder . I have had counselors identify my spouse as having a personality disorder , will never get better and I need to consider leaving. Video summary is at the end. PREFACE: For years, I witnessed the chaos that ADHD creates in a family when it goes unrecognized, the storm of forgotten appointments, unfinished conversations, and a fatigue no amount of sleep could erase. When diagnosis finally arrives late in life, it reframes every misunderstanding, every argument, and all the accumulated guilt. A revelation brings both relief and reckoning, relief that there's a name for the invisible barriers and reckoning with the years spent lost in confusion. But the path to accurate diagnosis is often littered with professional misunderstandings that nearly destr...

  "Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you." - Luke 10:19 Read those words again. Let them sink in. This isn't just a beautiful verse to cross-stitch on a pillow—this is your spiritual reality right now, in this moment. The Disconnect Between Heaven's View and Your Experience While you're walking around feeling defeated, overwhelmed by circumstances, and wondering if you'll make it through another day, heaven sees something entirely different. Heaven sees you as more than a conqueror through Christ who loves you (Romans 8:37). There's a massive disconnect between how you see yourself and how God sees you. The enemy has convinced you that you're barely hanging on, that you're lucky to survive whatever storm you're facing. But God says you're not just surviving—you're crushing every obstacle under your feet. Resurrection Powe...

Satan's greatest victory isn't celebrated when you fall into sin—it's won in the quiet moments when you close your Bible and walk away. He's discovered something profound: distraction kills more believers than temptation ever could. Think about it. The enemy doesn't need to drag you into some dramatic moral failure. He just needs to keep you too busy, too tired, too overwhelmed to open God's word. A distracted believer is a defeated believer. When Jesus faced the devil in the wilderness, He didn't rely on His own strength or wisdom. Three times the enemy tempted Him, and three times Jesus responded with the same powerful weapon: "It is written." That's your weapon too—the very words of God, sharp as any two-edged sword. Paul reminds us in Ephesians 6:12 that our battle isn't against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces in heavenly places. This isn't a fight you can see with your eyes, but it's happening all around you ev...

Satan's greatest weapon isn't temptation—it's DISTRACTION. He knows if he can pull you away from God's word and prayer, he's already won half the battle. Look at Jesus in Matthew 4 when Satan tempted Him in the wilderness. Jesus didn't fight with emotions or feelings. He fought with SCRIPTURE , saying "It is written" three times. That's our blueprint right there. 📖 "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places." - Ephesians 6:12 The enemy wants to deceive you into thinking you're: • Too busy • Too tired • Too distracted to seek God But 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says give thanks in ALL circumstances. Even when life feels chaotic, that's when we need His word MOST. 🎯 Matthew 6:33 tells us to seek FIRST His kingdom and righteousness. When we walk in the Spirit according...

For many, artificial intelligence (AI) is a marvel of modern innovation, promising to revolutionize everything from healthcare to entertainment. But what if there's a deeper, more spiritual dimension to this technological boom? What if AI isn't just changing our world, but also playing a role in fulfilling ancient biblical prophecies about the end times? It might sound far-fetched, but a closer look at certain scriptures reveals striking parallels with the capabilities and trajectory of today's AI. As believers, we are called to be "children of light" (Ephesians 5:8), discerning the times and understanding the unfolding of God's plan. The Speaking Image and Global Control: Revelation's Chilling Prophecy One of the most compelling connections comes from the book of Revelation 13:15 . This verse describes a chilling scenario: "The second beast was given power to give breath to the image of the first beast, so that the image could speak and cause all who...

Redeemed Existence 2 weeks ago It feels like the world is spinning faster than ever, doesn't it? With so much uncertainty, noise, and even fear trying to creep in, it's easy to feel overwhelmed, isolated, or pulled in a thousand directions. But in these very trying times, our greatest strength and deepest peace come from one place: a vibrant, intentional relationship with Jesus Christ. The devil loves chaos, and his oldest trick is to isolate us and sow seeds of fear. He wants to cut us off from our source of life and truth. But we are not defenseless! God has given us powerful tools to stand firm. 1. Seek God Through His Word: Dive into the Bible. When confusion abounds, the Bible is our unchanging compass. It's not just an old book; it's God's living, breathing word, direct communication from our Creator. It brings clarity, comfort, and truth that cuts through all the noise. "For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it ...

Redeemed Existence 8 days ago The darkness is a suffocating shroud, thick with the stench of hate, regret, and bitterness. It threatens to consume us whole! Yet, even in the deepest abyss, there's a desperate yearning for freedom, a flicker of hope that calls us to something more. Our recent Bible study, "Finding Light in the Dark of Hate," explored this profound human struggle, guiding us through the biblical narrative of overcoming bitterness, regret, and hate through the transforming power of Christ within. We confronted the stark reality of darkness and sin as described in passages like Romans 3:23 and Galatians 5:19 -21, acknowledging the heavy burdens these emotions place upon our hearts. The journey then led us to the concept of "rending the heart" (Joel 2:12 -13)—a call to true, inner repentance and a surrender of our hardened places. This deep transformation, as Psalm 51:10 and Ephesians 4:31 -32 teach, paves the way for genuine forgiveness, both g...

In a world obsessed with appearances and social media performances, there's an ancient truth that cuts through all the noise: God doesn't want your performance—He wants your heart. This powerful message comes from one of the most compelling passages in the Old Testament, found in Joel 2:12-13. It's a call that's as relevant today as it was thousands of years ago, challenging us to move beyond surface-level faith to something deeper and more transformative. The Ancient Practice of Mourning To understand the weight of God's words in Joel, we need to step back into ancient Middle Eastern culture. When people experienced grief, loss, or the need for repentance, they would literally tear their clothes. This wasn't just a mild gesture—it was a dramatic, public display of sorrow and remorse. Picture it: expensive garments ripped apart, torn from neck to hem, leaving the person exposed and vulnerable. It was their way of saying, "Look at my pain. See how sorry ...

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"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies." - 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 As followers of Christ, we are called to be faithful stewards of everything God has entrusted to us—including our physical bodies. This divine gift deserves our thoughtful care, not out of vanity or self-worship, but as an act of worship to our Creator and service to His kingdom. An Invitation to Wholeness If you're a believer struggling with health issues, or if you're curious about how faith might intersect with your wellness journey, I want you to know that God cares about every aspect of your life—including your physical health. He's not waiting for you to get healthy before He loves you, but He does want to walk with you toward the wholeness He designed you for. Your body is not your enemy to conquer or an idol to worship—it's a g...

"Even now,' declares the Lord, 'return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning. Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity." - Joel 2:12-13 How far is too far? When have we wandered so long, fallen so hard, or failed so repeatedly that God's patience finally runs out? These are the questions that haunt us in our darkest moments—when shame whispers that we've crossed some invisible line and there's no way back. But in the book of Joel, God speaks directly to this fear with two of the most hopeful words in all of Scripture: "Even now." The Context of Devastation Joel's prophecy came during a time of absolute devastation. A locust plague had stripped the land bare, crops destroyed, hope decimated, the future uncertain. The people had drifted from God, and judgment had fallen like a ...